Dear Steph, Tommy, Jackie, Krista and Brian….it was my honor and distinct pleasure to know Buddy all of my life. He was a great and fun guy, a gentleman of honor and a devoted family man who loved you all beyond measure—his grandkids and siblings as well. To you all I send my condolences and love.

Cousin Jim

Dear Steph and family,you are in my thoughts and prayer.
God Bless
Bill

Best brother in law, uncle, & friend to me and my girls. Glad you’re at ease now our Bud Man.

Charles Scary was very fun loving person. Love for his close knit family and his generosity is very admiring.

So very sorry for your loss. Remember that Buddy is in a better place, and no longer in any pain. I have many awesome memories of Buddy. Thinking about you Stephanie, Brian, Jackie, Tommy and Krista. I am here for anything you need.

So very sorry for your loss. Remember that Buddy is in a better place, and no longer in any pain. I have many awesome memories of Buddy. Thinking about you Stephanie, Brian, Jackie, Tommy and Krista. I am here for anything you need.

Bill and I have many happy shared memories with our families in Ocean City. He was my youngest brother and best friend. We will always think of him with a smile because he brought such joy to our lives. Rest In Peace Buddy we love you💔

RIP my friend. You'll be missed.

Stephanie and family, our thoughts are with you.
It doesn’t seem fair that the youngest of the six children of Tom & Catherine was the first to pass. Life is not always fair. Buddy never failed to call to say happy birthday Tom on my Nov. 18th B day. He didn’t call this 18th he was not able, as he passed the next day. Buddy was always fun to be around and we will never forget him. He will forever be in our hearts.

Bud was a very warm and loving, this helped in his family being so close knit. His passion for cars made him an expert on cars. Atul and I have benefited from his advise and guidance when we had car trouble.

He will always be remembered for his zest for life.

We knew Bud for a little over 3 years since Ankita took us to his and Stephanie's house. He welcomed Ankita and us in his family with open arms. He was a very warm person and great to have conversation with. I always looked forward to meeting him and having a conversation with him on various topics. He and Stef visited our house for Tommy and Ankita's wedding planning. There was not a slightest disagreement between us in planning the wedding. The wedding turned out to be very joyous occasion and he enjoyed every minute of it. He looked magnificent as a father of the bridegroom in an Indian wedding attire and danced to Bollywood tunes. He was always full of life and enjoyed life to the fullest. Even with his pain, he participated in a chair yoga session with me. Fathers's day of this year, he took me out to show his Porsche convertible and insisted I sit in the driver's seat and enjoy. I learned a lot from in how to enjoy life and how to be a family guy. I wish I had more time with him.

Steph and family, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Buddy will be truly missed. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Uncle Buddy, As a child, I remember going to Grandma's house over Christmas holidays. All the cousins, aunts and uncles would gather in that tiny living room to eat, drink, chat and be merry. Occasionally I would get the opportunity to sit on your lap - that was such a treat for me! Those were some of my fondest childhood memories. Now that I live far away and have not had the opportunity to see you often doesn't mean that I don't think of you. I remember your smile, your charm, your hugs, your laugh.... you will always have a place in my heart. Peace be with you in the loving hands of heaven. I will miss you.

Jim & Shirley Scary,

We will never forget our fun- loving times together. Our fondest memories of Buddy is in our younger days when he often stayed at our house. He was a great brother, brother-in-law, and uncle who always brought a smile to our face and made us laugh. He could take any situation and difuse it with laughter. His weekly phone calls to brother Jimmy meant the world to us; they were very close and often said "I love you" to each other. He will be deeply missed. Rest in peace Buddy......we love you!

You are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Remember that his life is not over but has changed. God bless you.

Stef, Brian, Jackie, Tommy and Krista, No words can erase the pain in your hearts at this time. Buddy, your husband, father, and my baby brother gave us so many memories to remember, to laugh about, to be grateful for, and to love. Buddy displayed enormous courage during the time he suffered with his illness. He always shared with me, that it was his Catholic faith and the loving support of his family which gave him the strength to deal with his pain. He told me that he was in his "Happy Place", when he watched the video streams of the Sunday and daily Masses from his parish, Nativity of Our Lord Church. Buddy was inspired and comforted by the words in the homilies that Father Joe Watson preached during the Mass. He accepted the fact that his days here on Earth were limited, but he was at peace knowing, he would be reunited with our mom and dad in Heaven and also that he would someday be reunited again with his family. Buddy and I would reminisce about our childhood and family memories, especially when we looked at family pictures. Nothing that is loved, is ever lost. May the healing gifts of time and the timeless love of God carry you gently through the loss you are feeling now. I will forever miss my conversations and visits with my brother, my Warrior. I love you.

I met Buddy when we worked at Food Check in their mid 70s. Bud was three years older than me and taught me a lot. I looked up to him like a big brother! He was the first bodybuilder I knew, incredible body and strong! I spent a few Christmas Eves at Bud’s house in the late 70s, always a great time! When I bought my first house, I had a leak in the kitchen ceiling, Bud and I repaired the leak, and we patch the ceiling. I lost touch with Buddy over the years. However, there wasn’t a week that went by that I didn’t think of him. Buddy, I never got a chance to tell you what a great influence you were and will continue to be in my life. You would be proud to know I spend most nights over at the NAC pumping iron, thanks for being a guiding influence in my early years!